“放养”儿子
<DIV><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><FONT size=4><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">俗话说</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">“</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">儿子要穷养，女儿要富养</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">"</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">。这话自然有一定的道理，要不怎么会有</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">“</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">从来富贵多淑女，自古纨绔少伟男</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">”</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">一说？读了一些成功</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">父母</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">家教的书，我相信对儿子最好的爱是</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">“</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">推出去的爱</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">”</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">。其实我已经意识到了，儿子</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">将来</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">自会有他独自的生活，我们希望他的未来之路走得更加稳健自信，所以应该让他尽快学会独立。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><FONT size=4><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">在网上看到一篇帖子，说的是</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #323e32; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">一个放养不羁却成长优秀的<SPAN lang=EN-US>12</SPAN>岁儿子，一个留学美国推崇<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>万事自己负责<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>的成功校长爸爸，构成的一对绝版父子。让我印象最深刻的是那个优秀的儿子说过的一句话“爸爸是我的赞助商”。<SPAN lang=EN-US></SPAN></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><FONT size=4><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #323e32; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">于是我学习这位父亲的教育方法，很多事情都让儿子自己思考了再去做。儿子喜欢踢足球，跟我说要买球鞋。我就让他自己去买。回来找我报销<SPAN lang=EN-US>60%</SPAN>，剩下的算我借他的，以后从他零花钱里面扣。于是为了这双球鞋，儿子首先很仔细的考虑了下性价比，花了整整一个下午才挑到。儿子想要学小提琴，我就给他买了琴报了培训班。儿子问我这个要不要从零花钱里面扣。我哈哈大笑，这个是老爸免费赞助你的。儿子喜欢玩电脑，我答应为他新买一台。儿子按自己的要求做了一晚上的预算清单，第二天我陪他去了一趟电脑城。花了不少时间买了一台</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333333; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">戴尔<SPAN lang=EN-US>Studio Desktop</SPAN>（<SPAN lang=EN-US>S210261CN</SPAN>），我还很大方的赞助了儿子两张游戏光盘和几张学习碟。回到家我问儿子，电脑买回来了，我们约定下什么时候可以玩电脑吧。儿子想了想，说每天玩一个半小时，星期六上午写作业，下午练球，晚上玩三个小时。星期天去补习班练琴，晚上玩一个小时。我觉得可以，但心里又有点放心不下，怕我不在家的时候儿子偷偷的玩电脑。不过儿子似乎看出了我的心思，就跟我说他同学小云家里新买了一个<SPAN lang=EN-US><a href="http://www.jcgcn.com/" target="_blank"><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN lang=EN-US>无线智能<SPAN lang=EN-US>路<SPAN lang=EN-US>由器</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN>，可以定时断网的。让我也给他买个好了。于是我打电话给小云妈妈问清楚什么品牌型号的，又带着跑到电脑城给他买了个<SPAN lang=EN-US><a href="http://www.jcgcn.com/products/products_show_505.html" target="_blank">JCG JHR N926R </A></SPAN>智能无线路由器。在对待儿子什么时候学习跟什么时候玩的问题上，</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #323e32; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">我觉得除了让孩子独立思考，尊重孩子的决定之外，把持一个有张有弛的度也很重要。<SPAN lang=EN-US></SPAN></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #323e32; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><FONT size=4>现在我儿子也会时常跟他同学说，我爸爸是我的赞助商。<SPAN lang=EN-US></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 30pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><FONT size=4><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">老婆回娘家了</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">还有两</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">天才回来</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">，儿子也被我们放逐在外，今天我成了一个快乐的单身汉。能在正真属于自己的时间里干些自己的事情其实也很快乐。我会记住这个难忘的假期，我把儿子</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">“</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">放养</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">”</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">在外，这是儿子真正走向独立的第一步，希望</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">“</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">放养</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">”</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH">的儿子更加快乐，更加独</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; COLOR: #114246; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">立，更加自信！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; COLOR: #323e32; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"></SPAN></FONT></P></DIV>
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